Tightness in the chest, mood swings and depression, which weigh a man down and make him quick to complain about the slightest thing, these all are symptoms of weak faith. A person easily gets upset with the people around him, and no longer has any tolerance. The Prophet described faith when he said, “Eemaan is patience and tolerance”.
Wa alykum as-salaam,
"Know well, that if God (Exalted is He) puts a barrier between what you want in this world, it is because He wants to give it to you as He wishes in the Hereafter. Many people think that God is depriving them. God is free from such imperfection that he would deprive His slaves."
- Sheikh El Shaarawy
The Prophet (saw) said: “When one of you makes dua, let him begin by praising his Lord, then send blessings on the Prophet (saw) then pray for whatever he wants”
How can we claim to love Allah when we don’t recite his words or respond with even a single dua to his call every last third of the night?
Wallahi we deceive only ourselves and its better to be honest with ourselves now while we can still make a change
When someone hurts you or harms you, even if it is a deep wound, forgive them. Forgive them NOT for their sake, but as a sign of gratitude to Allah. Why you ask? For making you the victim and not the oppressor. There is no crime in being a victim, rather it brings you closer to Allah and rids you of sins. But as for the oppressor, they’ll have to face their Lord one day. So in reality, they are their own greatest victims.